We say "there's always a
catch." And women talk about catching a man. But
there's not just one 'catching' but several layers of
All that follows is based on the societal
assumption that men want more pussy more than women
want more cock. That may also be biologically based,
but that doesn't matter for now.
Consider this: marriage is based on this
exchange, which is never stated unambiguously because
to do so would be to show who really cheats the most.
The woman gets the man's continuing exclusivity while
the man supposedly gets continuing access.
In other words, he continuously stays with her
and has sex with her alone and, in exchange, she is
continuously available to him, sexually. And, we would
hope, enthusiastically, on both sides.
But consider this: what often happens is that
access is gradually withdrawn, either physically,
psychologically or emotionally. Any one or any
combination is withdrawn. This is the first form of
cheating on the dealt. It abrogates the agreement,
leading to the other more commonly recognized forms of
Ideally, marriages would be based on equal
measures in this exchange. He would give up other
women's pussies in exchange for access to this one
pussy. Continuing exclusivity for continuing access.
But it rarely works out that way. The trap is set. And
he's to be get caught.
It's obvious that this deal ,this contract is in
force and enforceable as long as he continuously gives
up other women's pussies and continuously gets access
to this one pussy.
If he gets access to other pussies, he runs the
risk of losing access to this one.
If his access to this pussy is restricted or
eliminated , he gains the right of limited or
unlimited access to other pussies.
Many marriages are ruined because access to that
one pussy is taken for granted by him and not by her.
She wants his exclusivity but doesn't know, forgets,
or ignores her half of the deal--access in equal
measure to the exclusivity that she expects. She
starts saying 'no' but expects him to do nothing in
The trap is sprung. He is left with the